Overcome Unwanted sexual behaviors

Fast Track Your Recovery From Porn And Other Unwanted Sexual Behaviors
With A Christian Mentor By Your Side

Why can't I just Stop?

Many good men NEVER overcome pornography, NOT because they don’t want to, but because they don’t know HOW, and because they don’t have a system in place to remove guesswork from the process. Recovery doesn’t happen overnight, so how will you know if you’re on the right track? What habits and practices are vital to experience healing? Without clear answers to these questions, you can’t course correct, and you can’t be confident you’re moving in the right direction. What you don’t know WILL hurt you when it comes to your recovery, and can even undermine it. 

Have you been discouraged by:

•Feeling stuck in your recovery journey and not knowing why? 

•Putting in the effort but not seeing results? 

•Not having others to fight alongside? 

•Isolation, shame, and self-hatred?

•Well-meaning but ultimately unhelpful accountability groups?

A Goal without a plan

Is just a wish

Current Approaches aren't working

Of churchgoing men view porn regularly
%
Of pastors view porn on a consistent basis
%
Of young Christian adults 18-24 years old actively search for porn
%
of pastors say porn addiction is the most damaging issue in their congregation
%

Our Process

Personalized Dashboard

Once you sign up, you’ll have your own online dashboard to see your progress, and easily complete coursework and tasks all in one place. You can access it via your computer, or on our app with your mobile device.

create a game plan


We’re going to set some goals and chart a course to get you where you want to go. Together we will work on the activities and behaviors needed to reach these goals.

work the system


With a clear course set, we’re going to make the process very visible so you can see how you’re actually doing and progressing, and can make changes to your approach as needed.

Accountability

Sometimes we know what we need to do, we just need someone to help us do it, someone to push us and encourage us on the hard days, and remind us that our desired outcome is really possible. We provide loving, intentional accountability to help you reach your goal.


Our Credentials

122,640

Hours working In ministry

14+

Years of experience

200+

Hours of training

9

years of Personal Freedom

100+

Lives Changed

About Me

Ken Anderson

Founder and Mentor

My Story

My name is Ken Anderson. I struggled with unwanted sexual behaviors for 10 years before I got serious about finding freedom. Over the course of the next three years, I did find freedom, and since then have enjoyed helping other men find it too.  Working in ministry over the past 14 years has backed up the statistics that the vast majority of Christian men struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors, and don’t know how to stop.  My dream is to offer hope and practical help based on scripture, science, and experience to any Christian man who desires to see change and live a life of sexual integrity. 

“Ken has been great to work with! He really took interest in getting to know me, and work with me and my struggle with sexual sin. He really looked into what the root cause of my sin was, and helped me develop strategies to fight my addiction. I would recommend Ken to anyone who needs one on one help with sexual sin.”

Pricing Plans

Go with the right one

Individual Mentoring Basic

$ 199
Per Month
Best for those desiring help but who already have an effective accountability partner/group
2 one hour sessions per month
Personalized online dashboard to track progress, view action steps, and complete coursework
Personalized game plan
Daily check-in/voice messaging w/Ken
One on one work with Ken/add Ken as accountability partner

Individual Mentoring Advanced

$ 399
Per Month
Best for those desiring accountability and daily access to Ken 5 days a week
4 one hour sessions per month
Personalized online dashboard to track progress, view action steps, and complete coursework
Personalized game plan
One voice message w/Ken per day M-F
Option to add Ken as accountability partner with Covenant Eyes

Individual Mentoring Premium

$ 499
Per Month
Best for those desiring high level accountability/moment by moment coaching with Ken
4 one hour sessions per month
Personalized online dashboard to track progress, view action steps, and complete coursework
Personalized game plan
Unlimited voice messaging w/ Ken M-F
Option to add Ken as accountability partner with Covenant Eyes

FAQs

A few things:

  • Overcome struggles with pornography, masturbation, and other sexually addictive behaviors
  • Understand what drives them to act out sexually
  • Help them replace unhealthy sexual behaviors with God-honoring, life-giving healthy ones

Yes! If you aren’t 100% satisfied, you will get a full refund. Here are the specifics:

a) One-on-one Mentoring: If you aren’t satisfied after 4 meetings, you’ll get a full refund. After the first 4 meetings, moving forward clients are expected to pay for one month in advance with no refunds.

b) Book Group: If you aren’t satisfied after 2 meetings, you’ll get a full refund. After 2 meetings you will owe the entire amount.  

I struggled with unwanted sexual behaviors for over a decade, and eventually was able to obtain and maintain freedom from these behaviors for the past 9 years.  During this time I’ve helped other men experience freedom, and I love seeing men find healing and joy as they recover.  I want other men to experience the joy, freedom, and hope that living a life of sobriety can offer. 

I have worked with hundreds of men over the past 14 years in my job with the Navigators collegiate ministry.  I have discipled men, led bible studies, and led sexual addiction recovery groups.  In this time I’ve achieved my own sobriety, and have successfully helped others do the same.  Because of the hard earned wisdom of being an addict and recovering myself, combined with my years of experience mentoring men, knowledge of the Bible, and successfully helping other men overcome sexual addiction, I feel confident in my ability to help other men do the same.

I have taken an in-depth mentoring training course through the organization Bravehearts (https://bravehearts.org/), and have received extensive counseling in my own life.  Mentoring is not professional counseling/therapy, and is not intended to be a replacement for it.  Rather, in this scenario, it is coming alongside someone struggling with sexual addiction and using one’s personal experience in this area to coach them in how to find freedom.  Much like a guide leading  someone safely up and down a treacherous mountain, a mentor uses their personal experiences and success in “climbing the mountain themselves” to help the mentee. 

A one hour meeting once per week either in person or via zoom/phone.  Ken and the mentee  will cover multiple topics, including:  How to cultivate healthy, vulnerable, authentic relationships with other men, taking extreme measures to remove sin from one’s life, processing emotions, and teaching men how to let the gospel penetrate their hearts.

Mentees will also complete weekly online check-ins pertaining to their recovery which will be discussed during each session, as well as assigned content during the week. 

Duration: Client will sign up for 4 sessions at a time (unless mentee opts for the Basic plan of 2 sessions per month)

Cost:

Basic: $199 per 2 sessions

Advanced: $399 per 4 sessions

Premium: $499 per 4 sessions

This is a great question, and unfortunately I have a very annoying answer for you in return: It depends.  

Everyone’s struggle is different, and thus, so is everyone’s recovery journey. 

With that said, the program and content I take men through takes 16 weeks.  But remember, while clients pay for services at the beginning of each month (no refund except for after the first 4 weeks), you can stop at any time. You’re only on the hook for the 4 weeks you pay for in advance. 

You are also always welcome to extend beyond the 16 weeks if you’d like to keep working together. 

Yes! I speak at men’s retreats as well as one off events about how men can live lives of sexual integrity. I seeks to both inform and interact with the audience and to provide foundational knowledge as well as actionable next steps.  

I addresses multiple topics, including: 

  • How to cultivate healthy, vulnerable, authentic relationships with other men
  • Taking extreme measures to remove sin from one’s life
  • Processing emotions to discover the deeper issues beneathe the surface driving the unwanted sexual behavior
  • Teaching men how to let the gospel penetrate their hearts. 

Additionally, audience members will leave with practical tools for fighting against unwanted sexual behaviors, and will have time to take what they’ve learned to create their own personalized battle plan.  

I love working with men, and I have loved helping men in my life find freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors.

At one point in my life I had given up hope of ever being free, but God has been so gracious and helped me find freedom, and it has improved every area of my life. 

Too many men feel trapped, as I did, and fear they will never be free.  Many don’t know who to talk to or what to do next.  I feel confident that if you are willing to be open, work hard, and work the program, you too can be free.  I would absolutely love to get to know you, hear your story, and help you in your journey.  

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