MENTORING
Find Freedom From Porn
Christian Coaching In One-On-One And Group Settings
To Help You Find Lasting Freedom
“Due to God’s faithfulness and Ken’s presence in my life, I am now three years free from pornography and masturbation.”
— Former Mentee
The Most Common Obstacles to Finding Freedom
CONFUSED?
Are you confused why your sincere desire to stop never leads to lasting change?
LIMITED SUPPORT?
Do you lack effective support? Are you receiving help from someone who has walked in your shoes, and actually found lasting freedom?
ASHAMED?
Are you so ashamed of your struggle that you regularly sink into self-loathing?
I'm Here to Help
KEN ANDERSON · DEEP WATERS MENTORING
Finding freedom from porn is hard enough—but doing it on your own is next to impossible. I struggled with porn and masturbation for 10 years, then spent the next 3 years stumbling towards freedom. There were so many ups and downs, so many things about recovery I had to learn the hard way, because I didn’t have someone who could guide me. I had great people around me, but no one who had walked in my shoes and had come out on the other side finally free.
Like anything else, quitting porn is about knowing what to do, how to do it, and when to do it. Guessing your way forward—which, understandably, is how most people approach recovery—is a recipe for frustration and staying stuck. However, following the lead of someone who has battled their way through a 10-year addiction, found freedom, and helped others do the same is a recipe for success. I’ve been there; I’ve found freedom, and I’d love to show you how you can, too.
THERE IS A DIFFERENT WAY.
Lasting freedom requires more than trying harder.
That’s why Deep Waters approaches the fight from three directions:
ADDRESS THE HEART
Investigate what’s driving the behavior.
Learn how to meet the deeper need beneath the surface with something good.
TRAIN THE BODY
Your brain needs time to heal and form new neurological pathways.
Learn how to use moments of strength to prepare for inevitable moments of weakness.
FIGHT TOGETHER
Stop fighting alone.
Secrecy gives pornography power. Connection takes it away.
REAL MEN. REAL CHANGE.
Men who once felt stuck in the same cycle have learned to fight differently and experience real change.
“Ken really helped me understand both my emotional state that was undergirding my addiction to pornography and the habits that were making it harder to find lasting freedom. I’ve discovered a ton about myself through his mentorship, and I’ve been able to establish habits and practices that have led to lasting change.”
— Former Mentee
“Due to God’s faithfulness and Ken’s presence in my life, I am now three years free from pornography usage and masturbation.
It was during my time as a member of a mentoring group led by Ken that I finally saw what it would take to grow out of this addiction and the hope that I could truly have. Ken never sugarcoated anything or made me feel terrible but instead truthfully told me what I needed to do to grow and encouraged me along the way.”
— Former Mentee
“Partnering with Ken through using the 5-week course to help students break free from pornography was an incredible blessing! From the thoughtfully planned meetings to the daily check-ins, the course guided participants on a purposeful journey, leading to increased understanding, hope, and freedom. Having walked alongside individuals struggling with pornography for many years, I found partnering with Ken and this program to be extremely beneficial!”
— Pete Bullette, Director, Chi Alpha at UVA
START WITH THREE SIMPLE STEPS.
1. Schedule a free call. Tell me where you’re stuck and what you’ve already tried.
2. Choose the right next step. Together, we’ll decide which level of support fits you best.
3. Remove the guesswork from recovery. Build a practical, biblical system and stop fighting alone.
Ways to work together:
1:1 MENTORING
I want personalized help.
Work directly with Ken to understand your story and patterns, build a personalized game plan, and have someone walk closely with you through the process.
THE WORKSHOP
I want ongoing support.
A place to keep learning, stay connected, ask questions, and fight alongside other men committed to sexual integrity.
NOT READY TO TALK YET?
Start here for free.
A practical guide to fighting pornography effectively.
Learn why relying on willpower alone doesn’t work—and begin building a better approach to the fight.
QUESTIONS? LET'S TALK ABOUT THEM.
Is Deep Waters counseling or therapy?
No. Deep Waters is Christian mentoring, not professional counseling or therapy, and isn’t intended to replace mental-health treatment when that is needed.
Do I have to be a Christian?
No. You don’t have to be a Christian to work with Deep Waters—but you should know that the approach is explicitly Christian. My faith in Jesus shapes how I understand freedom, identity, grace, confession, community, and lasting change. I won’t hide that or separate it from the mentoring process. You don’t need to have everything figured out spiritually, but you should be comfortable engaging with a Christian approach.
What if I've been struggling with pornography for years?
Deep Waters is designed for men who have often tried repeatedly to change. How long you’ve struggled doesn’t determine whether change is possible. The goal is to understand your particular patterns and begin learning a different way to fight.
Which Deep Waters option is right for me?
Generally: 30-Day Challenge = focused reset; Workshop = ongoing support/community; Course = complete framework; 1:1 Mentoring = personalized help.
What if I'm not ready to talk to someone yet?
Start with Stop Trying Harder. It’s free and designed to help you begin understanding why your current approach may not be working and what you can do differently.
FREEDOM IS POSSIBLE.
You don’t have to keep fighting the same way.
Whether you’re ready to work with someone or just ready to take your first step, you can start fighting differently today.