MENTORING
Find Freedom From Porn
Christian Mentoring And Self-Paced Training
To Help You Find Lasting Freedom
“Due to God’s faithfulness and Ken’s presence in my life, I am now three years free from pornography and masturbation.”
— Former Mentee
Why Getting Free Has Felt So Hard
YOU DON'T KNOW WHY YOU KEEP GOING BACK
You genuinely want to stop. You’ve prayed, confessed, made promises, maybe read the books, but the cycle keeps repeating. Deep Waters helps you look beneath the behavior so you can understand the story, triggers, beliefs, and needs driving it.
YOU'RE TRYING TO FIGHT WITHOUT ENOUGH SUPPORT
Trying harder in private usually does not create lasting freedom. You need honest accountability, practical guidance, and other men who are learning to fight with clarity instead of shame, secrecy, or vague encouragement.
YOU'RE TIRED OF STARTING OVER
After enough setbacks, it can start to feel like freedom is possible for other men, but not for you. Deep Waters gives you a structured path forward so failure becomes information, not proof that you are hopeless.
I'm Here to Help
KEN ANDERSON · DEEP WATERS MENTORING
Finding freedom from porn is hard enough—but doing it on your own is next to impossible. I struggled with porn and masturbation for 10 years, then spent the next 3 years stumbling towards freedom. There were so many things about recovery I had to learn the hard way, because I didn’t have someone to guide me who had been in my shoes, and actually found lasting freedom.
Guessing your way forward and hoping for the best is a recipe for frustration and staying stuck. However, following the lead of someone who has battled their way through a 10-year addiction, found lasting freedom, and helped others do the same is a recipe for success. I’ve been there; I’ve found freedom, and I’d love to show you how you can, too.
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MENTORING THAT MEETS YOU WHERE YOU ARE
Deep Waters gives you a clear path for fighting pornography with structure, honesty, and support. Whether you begin in The Workshop, weekly 1:1 mentoring, or daily support, the goal is the same: clarify what is driving the struggle, build a practical game plan, and learn a better way to fight. Click the button below to learn more.
TOGETHER, WE’LL WORK TO:
› Understand what’s driving the behavior beneath the surface
› Build daily habits that support healing and lasting change
› Develop a practical plan for temptation, triggers, and difficult moments
› Use weekly assignments and personal check-ins to keep moving forward
› Track your progress, learn from setbacks, and adjust the plan when needed
› Replace secrecy and isolation with consistent support and connection
Find the support that fits.
Choose the level of support that fits where you are right now: a guided self-paced course, twice-monthly one-on-one mentoring, or weekly one-on-one mentoring.
Self-Paced Course
$99 / month
A self-paced video course with teaching from Ken, app-based assignments, daily check-ins, worksheets, readings, and a community message board for support along the way.
Learn more about the self-paced course
Work through the Deep Waters system at your own pace.
This option gives you an interactive course with teaching videos from Ken, assignments, readings, worksheets, and practical exercises inside the Deep Waters portal/app.
The course is designed to help you uncover the root of your struggle, understand your story, triggers, beliefs, and patterns, and learn how to build a better way to fight.
You will also use daily emotions check-ins, targets to aim for, and progress-tracking tools so you can pay attention to what is actually happening throughout the week.
There is no weekly meeting component with this option. You can move through the 12-16 weeks of content at your own pace, and it works especially well if you have a friend or accountability partner who can go through it with you and discuss the reflection questions together.
If you want help digging into something specific while you work through the course, you can schedule a one-off meeting with Ken for $150.
You will also have access to a group message board where men in the course can ask questions, post insights, celebrate wins, and encourage one another. Ken checks in regularly to answer questions and offer guidance.
- Teaching videos from Ken
- 12-16 weeks of self-paced content
- Portal/app assignments, readings, and worksheets
- Daily emotions check-in and habit tracking
- Targets to aim for and practical protocols
- Group message board for questions, insights, and wins
- Best with a friend or accountability partner, though you can do it on your own
Mentoring Options
Start with the self-paced course, step into one-on-one mentoring twice a month, or choose weekly one-on-one mentoring for a steadier rhythm of personal guidance.
One-on-One Mentoring
2 meetings / month
$299 / month
Twice-monthly private mentoring with Ken for men who want personal guidance, a clear plan, and help using the Deep Waters system in their actual life, patterns, and story.
Learn more about twice-monthly mentoring
Personal guidance without a weekly meeting pace.
This option gives you two private mentoring meetings with Ken each month, along with the Deep Waters portal/app, assignments, worksheets, check-ins, and tools you will use between sessions.
You will work through your story, triggers, beliefs, choices, and patterns so you can address the root of the struggle instead of only reacting to the surface behavior.
Between meetings, you will complete assignments, track habits, practice protocols, and use your check-in data to notice what is helping, where you are vulnerable, and what needs to be adjusted.
This is a good fit if you want personalized support and accountability, but do not need to meet every week.
- Two private mentoring meetings each month
- Personalized guidance from Ken
- Deep Waters portal/app access
- Assignments, worksheets, readings, and check-ins
- Habit tracking, protocols, and progress review
- Support tailored to your story and circumstances
One-on-One Mentoring
4 meetings / month
$499 / month
Weekly private mentoring with Ken for men who want a steadier rhythm of personal guidance, accountability, course work, habit tracking, and practical plan adjustments.
Learn more about weekly mentoring
A steadier rhythm of personal support.
This option gives you four private mentoring meetings with Ken each month, plus access to the Deep Waters portal/app, assignments, worksheets, readings, check-ins, habit tracking, and practical protocols.
Weekly meetings create a consistent rhythm for reviewing what is happening, understanding your patterns, strengthening your plan, and making adjustments before weeks slip by.
You will not just talk about whether you failed or succeeded. You will look beneath the surface at your story, triggers, emotions, beliefs, choices, and process so you can learn a new way to fight.
This is a good fit if you want more frequent guidance, accountability, and support while you work through the Deep Waters system.
- Four private mentoring meetings each month
- Weekly guidance, accountability, and plan adjustments
- Deep Waters portal/app access
- Assignments, worksheets, readings, and check-ins
- Habit tracking, protocols, and progress review
- A consistent rhythm for building lasting change
If you want an even more robust option with help on a daily basis, contact Ken and ask about daily support.
Compare the options.
| What's included | Self-Paced Course | One-on-One: 2 meetings/month | One-on-One: 4 meetings/month |
|---|---|---|---|
| Monthly price | $99 | $299 | $499 |
| Teaching videos from Ken | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Assignments, readings, and worksheets | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Deep Waters portal/app access | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Daily emotions check-in and habit tracking | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Group message board | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Private mentoring meetings with Ken | No | 2/month | 4/month |
| Personalized guidance and plan adjustments | No | Yes | Yes |
| Best fit | Men who want guided course structure at their own pace | Men who want personal support without meeting every week | Men who want a weekly rhythm of guidance and accountability |
Self-Paced Course
$99 / month
- Teaching videos from Ken
- Assignments, readings, and worksheets
- Deep Waters portal/app access
- Daily emotions check-in and habit tracking
- Group message board
One-on-One Mentoring
$299 / month
- Everything in the self-paced course
- Two private meetings with Ken each month
- Personalized guidance and plan adjustments
- Best for support without a weekly meeting pace
One-on-One Mentoring
$499 / month
- Everything in the self-paced course
- Four private meetings with Ken each month
- Weekly guidance and accountability
- Best for a steadier rhythm of personal support
Want an even more robust option with help on a daily basis? Contact Ken and ask about daily support.
REAL MEN. REAL CHANGE.
Men who once felt stuck in the same cycle have learned to fight differently and experience real change.
“Ken really helped me understand both my emotional state that was undergirding my addiction to pornography and the habits that were making it harder to find lasting freedom. I’ve discovered a ton about myself through his mentorship, and I’ve been able to establish habits and practices that have led to lasting change.”
— Former Mentee
“Due to God’s faithfulness and Ken’s presence in my life, I am now three years free from pornography usage and masturbation.
It was during my time as a member of a mentoring group led by Ken that I finally saw what it would take to grow out of this addiction and the hope that I could truly have. Ken never sugarcoated anything or made me feel terrible but instead truthfully told me what I needed to do to grow and encouraged me along the way.”
— Former Mentee
“Ken has been great to work with! He really took an interest in getting to know me and working with me in my struggle with sexual sin. He looked into the root cause of my sin and helped me develop strategies to fight my addiction. I would recommend Ken to anyone who needs one-on-one help with sexual sin.”
— Former Mentee
MENTORING THAT MEETS YOU WHERE YOU ARE
More than a mentoring call.
Addiction thrives in chaos but wilts under the weight of clarity and structure. Finding freedom takes more than good intentions—you need a plan for what to do in real moments of temptation, and a system to help you carry it out.
The Deep Waters portal and app give you practical tools to track habits, complete check-ins, work through assignments, practice protocols, and see your progress over time. In mentoring, we use that information to understand what is happening beneath the surface and adjust the plan as needed.
A WEEK OF MENTORING AT A GLANCE
1:1 Mentoring Meeting With Ken
Regular 60 minute zoom or phone calls to work through obstacles, discuss assignments, and give you the targeted help you need wherever you're feeling stuck.
Daily Habit Tracker + Emotions Check-In
Build the necessary habits to meet the underlying needs driving the unwanted behaviors, learn to engage your emotions rather than numb or medicate them, and do it all from your phone or computer.
Weekly Assignments
Address the root of your struggle by exploring your story, triggers, and beliefs through weekly assignments. To find lasting freedom, you have to go beneath the surface.
Accountability + Connection
You'll be encouraged with the hope of the gospel, pushed to do what you know you should do but may not want to, and coached in how to deepen your connection with God, yourself, and others.
Protocols for Hard Moments
Know exactly what to do when you’re tempted, triggered, or recovering from a slip-up. We learn from the hard moments and don't lose heart when we make mistakes. In light of grace we learn from slip-ups, adjust our plan, and keep moving forward.
Use the Deep Waters online portal and app throughout the week to track your habits, complete check-ins, work on assignments, practice your protocols, and see your progress over time. This tracked data will give you and Ken vital information for how to best utilize your mentoring meetings.
REAL PROGRESS
Curiosity, not condemnation.
Why do we track how you’re doing with practicing your habits, slip-ups, etc? It’s NEVER to shame you. It’s so we can get an accurate picture of where you’re getting stuck, investigate why, and then keep moving forward in a way that will actually lead to change.
We believe in process, not perfection. If you slip-up, we don’t reset a counter and tell you to try harder. We get curious. What was happening beneath the surface? What were you feeling? Where did the plan break down? What can we learn? And how do we move forward in light the good news and hope of the gospel?
See how this process played out in real life for a Deep Waters Client below:
PROGRESS TAKES TIME, AND THAT’S OKAY.
Real progress from a Deep Waters client
Feb 2 – Mar 9
Mar 29 – Jun 5
Jun 26 – Aug 7
Aug 8 – Present
“Temptation overall has continued to be at a good level. I have not really been feeling too tempted overall. 70 days is awesome, and we keep moving forward.”
— Deep Waters client
Real Men. Real Stories. Real Progress.
Using our app to track helps us recognize patterns, learn from setbacks, celebrate growth, and make better decisions about what to work on next.
HOW DOES IT WORK?
GETTING STARTED
REACH OUT TO KEN
Tell me where you’re stuck or ask a question. I’d love to hear from you!
CHOOSE THE RIGHT NEXT STEP
Choose which of the three mentoring options you’d like to go with.
IMPLEMENT THE NEW SYSTEM
I’ll be with you every step of the way as you put your personalized plan into action.
See the Deep Waters Framework
In this teaching, Ken explains how story, triggers, choices, and process shape the cycle of pornography addiction, and how Deep Waters uses habits, practices, and protocols to help men fight differently.
See the Tools You’ll Use Between Sessions
If you’re wondering what support looks like between calls, here’s a quick walkthrough of the habit tracker, app, client portal, and resources that support the mentoring process.
MENTORING FAQ
Questions You May Have Before Starting
Is Deep Waters counseling or therapy?
No. Deep Waters is Christian mentoring, not professional counseling or therapy, and isn’t intended to replace mental-health treatment when that is needed.
Do I have to be a Christian?
No. You don’t have to be a Christian to work with Deep Waters—but you should know that the approach is explicitly Christian. My faith in Jesus shapes how I understand freedom, identity, grace, confession, community, and lasting change. You don’t need to have everything figured out spiritually, but you should be comfortable engaging with a Christian approach.
What if I've been struggling with pornography for years?
Deep Waters is designed for men who have often tried repeatedly to change. How long you’ve struggled doesn’t determine whether change is possible. The goal is to understand your particular patterns and begin learning a different way to fight.
Which Deep Waters option is right for me?
If you want guided structure you can work through at your own pace, the Self-Paced Course is the best place to begin. If you want personalized support but do not need weekly meetings, twice-monthly One-on-One Mentoring may be the best fit. If you want a steadier weekly rhythm of guidance and accountability, weekly One-on-One Mentoring is the strongest standard option. If you want an even more robust option with help on a daily basis, reach out and ask Ken about daily support.
How long does mentoring last?
The Self-Paced Course is designed around 12-16 weeks of content, but you can work through it at your own pace. One-on-One Mentoring follows the Deep Waters process through private mentoring meetings, assignments, check-ins, habit tracking, and plan adjustments. Twice-monthly mentoring usually moves at a slower pace than weekly mentoring, but each option is month to month.
How long is each mentoring meeting?
One-on-one mentoring meetings are one hour. The Self-Paced Course does not include live meetings, but it does include teaching videos from Ken, portal/app assignments, check-ins, worksheets, and a group message board.
Do I have to commit long term?
No. Deep Waters is offered one month at a time. You are not required to commit to the entire process upfront, and you can stop at the end of any month if it isn’t what you were hoping for.
What happens during a typical week?
You’ll use practical assignments, daily habit tracking, emotions check-ins, accountability, and protocols for difficult moments. If you are in one-on-one mentoring, you will review what you are learning with Ken and adjust your plan as needed. If you are in the Self-Paced Course, you will work through the teaching videos and course content on your own schedule and can use the group message board for questions, insights, and wins.
What’s included with the online portal and app?
The Deep Waters online portal and app give you one place to track habits, complete check-ins, work through assignments, practice your protocols, and see your progress over time.
Is mentoring confidential?
Your privacy matters. What you share in mentoring is treated with care and discretion, except in situations where safety or the law requires otherwise.
What if I'm not ready to talk to someone yet?
Start with A Better Way To Fight. It’s free and designed to help you begin understanding why your current approach may not be working and what you can do differently.
What if mentoring isn’t a good fit?
You’re not locked into a long-term contract. You can cancel before the beginning of your next month.
First-Month Guarantee for one-on-one mentoring: If you don’t believe Deep Waters is the right fit after your first two live sessions, let Ken know within 48 hours of that point and he’ll refund your first month’s payment in full.
After that initial guarantee period, payments are nonrefundable, but Deep Waters is still offered month to month.
Taking the first step can feel hard, but good things almost always lie on the other side. Send me a message about where you’re feeling stuck, any questions you might have, or any ways I can help. I’ll reply personally, and from there, together, we can decide on the best next step.
NOT READY TO TALK YET?
A Better Way To Fight
A free practical guide to fighting pornography effectively.
Learn why relying on willpower alone doesn’t work—and begin building a better approach to the fight.
FREEDOM IS POSSIBLE.
You don’t have to keep fighting the same way.
Whether you’re ready to work with someone or just ready to take your first step, you can start fighting differently today.